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Hi Midnightskykline.
I've just caught up on your latest developments, and responses to you.
I, too, reckon that the right to discuss is a basic human right.
Manic_Skafe just said " ..... If stuff of this sort is considered so perverse as to be so ridiculously beyond discussion then what is permitted? ..... "
I vigorously echo that question; and also that learning to just 'live with it' and pretending not to be bitter are not your best next steps.
I reckon there's active stuff for you to go ahead and do now: there's information there for you to gather and organise. To what extent does discussion generally have a place in your present relationship? You opened the topic in the context of your intense desires in a sex-related area, now what are the patterns around 'who gets to open their mouth' in other areas, including day-to-day housekeeping. How do things get sorted? How else are things the way you want them, and how else would you like them to be different?
Best wishes
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