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Originally Posted by dlish
event horizon is right. ignore that text messages. or if you have to reply, reply only to the questions where he doesnt asks you to borrow something.
eventually the guy will get the message. if you want to be nice and he asks to borrow something, tell him you're using it. if you dont want to be nice, just say no because you dont like people using your stuff because they dont look after it the way you would
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Being nice got you into this position. Explaining 'why' just extends the conversation. If it's a text, ignore it. If it's a phone call, just say no. Stop speaking and let the silence hang in the air. If he asks why, say "I have my reasons and I don't need to explain them. Ask somebody else. I've gotta go!" and hang up or disconnect.
Lindy