I just don't think it's all so black and white. I don't think I ever have.
I think there is too much emphasis in sex as an indicator of fidelity. For me, it is more about emotional commitment. Divided loyalties and all that.
The physical act of sex with another person can be quite intimate (as it is with a committed partner) but it can also just be a release, perhaps a notch about masturbation.
Not everyone feels this way and, by and large, society shares views similar to Levite (at least on the shiny surface we show to each other) so there will continually be conflict along these lines.
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