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Old 03-26-2011, 04:34 AM   #23 (permalink)
ralphie250
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You should make sure that communication between you is clear, open, and honest. Be sure that she really does have no desire, and that she is not merely lacking physical attraction to you (I say that with compassion, since I have been on the unpleasant receiving end of that conversation, myself).

But if your communication is open and honest, and what you've said is accurate, then I think you need to be clear with her that this is a major issue for you, and you'd like for you both to see a sex therapist together. There may be psychological reasons for her lack of desire, or even possibly physical reasons, and either of those might be overcome.

I have thought about that before (seeing a therapist) but 2 things. 1 i dont know if we can afford that cause i dont know how much that cost and im not sure if its covered by my insurance. (i guess i should call and see how much it will cost per session and to see if it is covered) 2. i guess im just scared (just being honest)
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