Ms. Anonymous, you and I have had this conversation in private. You're dealing with someone who's way beyond the normal social boundaries. He's chosen to ignore those. I know there are larger issues at work here, but you've been approaching this point for a while. It is now time to start talking to superiors before something bad happens. Right now you're just uncomfortable - no one here wants to see worse.
If you haven't been documenting, start. If you have, go to your boss today. If that's not possible, go above the boss's head and apologize later. This situation is not going to get better on it's own, and you need outside intervention, even someone to rattle his cage and say "what are you doing, dummy? Normal people don't act this way."
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