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Originally Posted by The_Jazz
You can't avoid the fight, so pick the one you want.
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Unfortunately, unpleasant subjects have to be dealt with in life. It's not always easy, so be sure you have your helmet on.
The more practice you get, the better equipped you'll be to deal with it each time.
Remember that over-analysis can sometimes make the issue feel a lot grander than it truly is. You may want to give a moment's though to your approach. There's a lot to be said for disarming your supposed opponent before the fight begins. It's quite possible this could be a discussion and not a fight.
Knowing that he/she isn't going to be happy no matter what your decision, this may be a case where you can gently lead to some reasoning that may help soften it for that person. That's about all you can do if the person is important in your life.
After that, it's his/her issue. Don't take it on as your own and know that you're doing the best you can.