Well, if you talk to this person like you talk to us, no wonder you're getting called names. This is confusing.
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Originally Posted by That Smartass Computer from "War Games" starring Matthew Broderick
Would you like to play a game?
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OP is so incredibly vague as to be useless to those of us attempting to help out and the universal TFP answer will undoubtedly be dropped like a carpet bombing campaign in Vietnam: communication. If communication is confrontation, well, you're fucked if you're trying to avoid it. Throw us a frickin' bone.
What is the topic here? Money? Deadbeat friend living on the couch too long? Marriage? Anal sex? Borrowing the car? Drugs? TeeVee show choices?
Life is a series of "confrontations" with other people. Relationships, both personal and professional, are based on understanding and compromise.
If you don't have enough guts to stand up for you, don't expect the other person to do it. And post the topic, for Jazz's sake.