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Originally Posted by Cynthetiq
that's the point. I had justification to cross in front of the cars. I was in a hurry I needed to be there now! not a moment from now, but now!
so what are you doing that may be assholish?
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To my family I'm an asshole, who neglects them and spends too much time in the net. There's no justification to that.
I decide to ignore some people, because I don't want to deal with them. With some people there just comes a point, when I can't stand them, but I don't necessarily let them know what's wrong, so they don't even get a chance to discuss or tell their "excuses". For starters I'm open to people and quite lenient, but if someone constantly and knowingly irks me, lies, or abuses the relationship thinking I approve something they do or say, I just may turn the switch off, when I decide they weren't really listening to who and what I am.
I'm an asshole in a sense that sometimes I poke people myself or expect them to understand my humor. But I never do pretend to be a person with a big forgiving heart either.