I agree with the stage of life concept. When my marriage ended, I had 2 kids and I was 40. I decided to take a year to find myself and help my children deal with this. I was not interested in finding a new sex partner at the time. I needed time to refocus on myself and the children. I am glad I did not try to find a new partner immediately.
If I was much younger, and without children, I may have been more willing to find someone quicker.
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