hehe Cadre, I took no offense to your post what so ever. Sorry, if it seemed I did.
I do not go to the parties because I have heard people are rude and look down on others. Not cool and not something I want to be around. Sorry, your experience sucked as much as I have heard others say.
Zeraph: huh? Just because I like to wear a collar does not mean I am "collared." I think I'm missing what you are getting at. I know Goreans are different and so is their lifestyle. I am not a gorget, and I am not collared (two different things). I am not sure where the confusion is coming from, but I was trying to explain how I wearing a collar does not make one collared. You asked if I meant gorget, I didn't.
