| I don't know if you've officially broken up with her, but it might be best for your self image if you at least leave her a message and say that it wasn't working out for you, and you hope she finds what she is looking for.  
 I had a girlfriend a while ago, and we were doing pretty good together, but eventually she started pulling away.  I figured out that she was worried about hurting me, and didn't want to break up with me for that reason.  I did her the favor of breaking up with her, nice and gently.  I still miss her sometimes, but it was the right thing to do.
 
 I also think me doing the breaking up made it easier for me to move on.
 
				__________________bill hicks - "I don't mean to sound bitter, cold, or cruel, but I am, so that's how it comes out."
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