The air is uncomfortable, but I think it's funny when it comes out. Maybe you could ask him if it's ok if he pulls out so you can get the air out. Then you can both laugh about it. "haha vaginas are funny," etc.
No one has addressed this yet, but there's some underlying frustration on your end about his weight and general attitude. Do you think this could be contributing to your negative sexual experience? Maybe the air wouldn't bother you so much if you felt like you could be more open without the fear of him losing his erection. Seems like there's some pressure surrounding that. Do you feel like you can talk to him about these issues openly?
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