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I am a pretty private person while also being quite open, as contradictory as that may sound. A lot of my personal interactions and my life is housed online simply for practicality due to distance and living a very mobile life. So, my computer and emails, by extension, carry a lot of sensitive information.
When I was living with my ex, we both had our own computers and it was an unspoken hands off without due cause, such as using the printer. I really don't care whats on the computer, if its truly of any importance I expect to have open communication about it.
I am not one to handle overbearing and inquisitive SO's well. While I don't have anything to hide, I am extremely used to having complete autonomy and privacy. Things are where they make sense to me. If I foresee computer use by a guest being neccessary, I'll just log out entirely ahead of time and prompt the guest account, or else say "sorry, no i really would prefer you not use my computer".
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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