Yesterday in Tfp Chatroom Snowy, Smakcre, Amonkie - we were talking about Abuse versus Punishment versus Discipline... We even spoke about Isolation Discipline....
I shared the views with my SO. She founds this today coincidentally and sent to me:
6-Year-Old Oregon Girl Commits Suicide, Medical Examiner Says
Snowy, another coincidence is this happened in Oregon.
1) Is order and discipline against nature? Do children prefer chaos and no-order?
2) How do we really establish discipline and behavior?
3) At what age are they ready for a conversation? Until then how do we establish discipline?
We don't have kids. I am not even sure whether I will have one someday. But these are questions that often I think of...
Personally when I was a kid
1) I always stick to an order. Except for laziness I am not against order and discipline.
2) I was never too mischievous. That however could be due to lack of Intelligence
3) ~7 years I was ready for conversation. What ever I was told and convinced I just listened.