New user, but thought I'd input on this one.
You kinda know when it's time to "get the hell out of Dodge".
When you decide, do it with dignity, do it kindly and don't burn any bridges.
Be kind to yourself, but remember that if you aren't giving this relationship 100% then you may have to find those resources to get the next one off the ground. If there is a spark you are clinging onto in this relationship, then now is the time to give it that 100% and reignite that relationship.
It's ironic how we all pull out the stops to get a new partner, but get into lazy habits with the one we're with. If the love is still there, it breaks your heart to see them giving 100% to someone else!
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