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Anonymous Member · 11-07-2010, 02:43 AM

Thank you all for your responses, it's been good to hear a number of different views.

I think I still remain convinced that she enjoys oral sex, but not in the way that I've been doing it. I'm going to initiate it once or twice more over the next little while, with some of the techniques some of you have recommended, and see how she responds.

If she is still not in to it I'll sit down (afterwards!) and ask her kindly to indulge me in one last chat about it, and let her know that if she changes her mind, all she has to do is ask, but that I won't keep putting her in that position (excuse the pun). I won't ask her to convince me or explain anything further unless she volunteers, and I'll just leave it at that.

It's a bit embarrassing to admit that I've got myself into this rut by over thinking things, but it's my issue to deal with and it's not fair to insist that she 'prove' to me one way or the other.

Thanks again for all your advice :-)

11-07-2010, 02:43 AM	#17 (permalink)
Anonymous Member Addict	Thank you all for your responses, it's been good to hear a number of different views. I think I still remain convinced that she enjoys oral sex, but not in the way that I've been doing it. I'm going to initiate it once or twice more over the next little while, with some of the techniques some of you have recommended, and see how she responds. If she is still not in to it I'll sit down (afterwards!) and ask her kindly to indulge me in one last chat about it, and let her know that if she changes her mind, all she has to do is ask, but that I won't keep putting her in that position (excuse the pun). I won't ask her to convince me or explain anything further unless she volunteers, and I'll just leave it at that. It's a bit embarrassing to admit that I've got myself into this rut by over thinking things, but it's my issue to deal with and it's not fair to insist that she 'prove' to me one way or the other. Thanks again for all your advice :-)