I personally LOVE LOVE LOVE an unshaven face during oral. I dont like "soft kisses" kinda oral. I want someone who devours me...eats me like they are a starving man at a buffet...I like the stride of the full tongue up and down hard on my river path, as well as the tip of the tongue to tease and tip my clit.
I would be bored to tears if someone gave me "the Carpenter's" type of rhythm instead of "Evanescence -Wake Me Up Inside". If her clit likes rough handling, put on some music that will get you in the right tongue dance mood....
also, if you are feeling insecure about your talents, get some good porn. Visual aids work wonders for some folks. (They do offer workshops in some areas.)
Or get yourself one of those huge multi colored lollipops...seriously....work it in the center until you break through...then do it again and again. and if your face, etc isnt covered in sugary goop from your forehead to your chest hairs, you arent getting it wet enough...
cut the end off a watermelon and work your way threw it...without using your teeth. Just tongue and lips...when you cant go further, cut off more and start over...
strengthen your tongue...get Bit of Honey candy bars....put one piece on the top of your mouth...spend the next two minutes licking it back and forth until it softens and disappears....no chewing..make it stay there...up on top of your palate....press and stroke....switch off with red fish candy, and juju beads.
And personally, I dont like 69. I like to focus. If I am going down on someone, they are not allowed to be preoccopied. I have complete control of their entire set of senses....they are to focus on what I am giving them and nothing else.
and when I am getting it...well...dont distract me .....I want to revel in the glory of the talents before me.
Besides, I am selfish. When i am getting it, I dont want to have to give too. I want it to be all about me. But then...I am like that...
all of this..is just MHO
|