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As I undertand it, your questions are "what changed? and why?"
Honestly, we could guess, but the only way you're ever going to know is to ask. At the end of the day, you need to figure out how important performing oral on her is to YOU. If it's something you really want to do and do well, then you're just going to have to tell her and ask for her help.
As Amonkie said, it's entirely possible that she hadn't had much/any oral before you two got together. She could have decided that it's just not her thing. Given all the other stuff that she likes, from my perspective it looks like the burden's now on you to decide how big a deal that is for you.
Personally, I love giving oral, but it wouldn't be a deal-breaker for me given all the other stuff that she likes.
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