Strangers calling you by name
One of the things Ruby Tuesday is pushing right now is getting the guest's name and then using it to "personalize the experience." Not just straight up asking, "hey, what's your name?" but if they give you a personalized coupon, or pay by credit card, somehow incorporating their name into the farewell. "Thanks for coming in, tonight, Mr. Jones."
I have never liked doing this, and stick to "sir" or "ma'am." Besides the fact that I feel uncomfortable doing so in a serving situation, it kind of creeps me out when I'm on the other side, and my server uses my name (or if anyone I'm not on regular speaking terms uses my name, for that matter.)
What do you think? Are you flattered when someone uses your name in this situation, or does it feel kinda creepy?
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