You know what? You're 23.
What is important to you in your life changes as the years on that age number change.
Why did you start the relationship to begin with? Does that reason still hold true?
Someone once told me - relationships are 95% friendship and 5% lover. I don't always agree with the figure, but day in and day out.... it does have some truth. Why is the spark so important to you? Just think about any regular fire - once you light it, it inevitably goes out unless you keep feeding the fire. Sometimes that means you have to get creative to find fuel sources. Question then becomes, do you want to?
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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