Tilted Cat Head
Administrator
Location: Manhattan, NY
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I'm always amazed that people think that "and they lived happily every after..." is something to strive for.
Life is life. It's hard, be harder. It's boring, find a way to make it exciting.
This applies to relationships too. I'll tell you there are days when it's boring, but you know what, I still can't wait to get home every night to be with my wife after being married for 8 years. We still hold hands. We still kiss each other every day. We cuddle. We make funny talk with each other and have our own language that only we understand.
I work at our relationship every single day. So should you, even if it isn't this person, you should be working it every day when you find another.
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I don't care if you are black, white, purple, green, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, hippie, cop, bum, admin, user, English, Irish, French, Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, Buddhist, Muslim, indian, cowboy, tall, short, fat, skinny, emo, punk, mod, rocker, straight, gay, lesbian, jock, nerd, geek, Democrat, Republican, Libertarian, Independent, driver, pedestrian, or bicyclist, either you're an asshole or you're not.
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