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Fact: You have been in a relationship of only a year and a half
Fact: In this time you moved in together. The amount of time withing that relationship you actually have lived with her we do not know.
Fact: You dont want sex with her anymore
Fact: Soon she will have to move across country to go to grad school
Fact: You work, go to concerts, hang out with your friends, play video games while she is in college working on her future
I have been in her shoes. Do not kid yourself and think you are doing her any favor by sticking it our and giving her no sex and dragging yourself across country with her so you can complain how she did that to you at a later date. Will she cry when you tell her you want to break up now? Oh probably. But later, kindly, wisely, she will thank you sincerely, for doing the right thing...
dont drag this out and make yourselves both miserable. Its really tough going to grad school. You will hate missing your friends and routine. You both deserve damn good sex with spark. You are 23 for heavens sake. This is still part of your prime!
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