Breaking up
I usually turn to this forum for advice, so I am back once again.
I've been in a relationship for about a year and a half. We currently live together and we get along well. The problem is, I just don't think the "spark" is there anymore. I'm not really interested in intimacy anymore, I don't really feel anything when we kiss, and its just overall...not good.
We also have different interests. She is more of a working girl and is currently trying to get into graduate school. I'm pretty settled in with my job and like to go to concerts, hang out with friends, play video games, etc.
I have been thinking I need to break up with her for these reasons. I just don't think I can go on in a relationship like this. I talked to some friends about it and they both said "relationships take work." I guess, but I am only 23.
The next step would be to move out of state to attend her grad school of choice. I definitely need to make up my mind before then.
Like I said, we get along really, really well. I consider her a best friend. But if the spark isn't there...I don't think we should be together.
Your thoughts? Thanks for all the help in advance.
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