9er, that's pretty much it. Simply admitting that you like to read, go to museums, drink tea or wine, and listen to classical or jazz, and suddenly "yer gay."
It reminds me of the whole Brokeback Mountain conundrum: "Thar ain't no gay cowboys...."
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Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing?
—Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön
Humankind cannot bear very much reality.
—From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot
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