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Originally Posted by Plan9
If the only reason you're with somebody is a name-calling competition or to point out their failures and flaws, you need change it up. Get somebody new. Partners are supposed to build something together, not tear each other down or hold each other back from their goals.
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Plus one, Plan9.
I've known couples, some of them long time couples, that play this game and I've always wondered what they get out of it. In my world somebody might get away with that once. Okay, maybe more than once.
But pretty soon my question would change from "Why does he do that?" to "What the hell am I doing in a relationship with this jerk?"
And it's not enough that you want to be in a relationship with me. If I don't want a relationship with you, you're a history lesson!
Lindy
on the road