You obviously have a connection with her that goes deeper than friendship. You've admitted it while sober, she hasn't. Either you both admit it and something happens, or you're on different levels of maturity and nothing comes of it. I hope for the sake of both of you that you get together like you both want to, worst case it's just long enough that you can both realize that what you have now is ideal. Don't get tunnel vision and blind yourself to other romantic opportunities, but also don't resign yourself to nothing happening with her.
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