I guess I don't understand why a boyfriend needs to know how much you make? I don't even understand why a live-in boyfriend needs to know.
I don't think that information needs to be shared until you are married and own stuff together. Until then, he could simply know "I am financially sound." and you can buy what you want.
I would make him pay his way on the trips. This will give him the ambition to earn more through productivity and marketing. He'll enjoy the trips more when he paid his way.
Oh, and "Pre-nup."
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