Everyone says its healthy to fantasize. Honestly, I never really felt that kind of tension about anyone...I guess it's more so a small crush than wanting to sleep with someone. Anyways, if you're happily married, I think that it's best to stay away from this lady (especially if she shows interest) because it's a slippery slope and it'll be really hard to stay away from temptation. Best to keep your distance and avoid situations.
Anyways, it's common. Women feel the same way too...maybe not as much as men but a good amount.
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