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Originally Posted by Freetofly
I wanted to do the counseling, he called it for Misfits that don't know there way.
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Much better to pretend you know what you're doing and watch your marriage disintegrate because YOU DON'T. If you knew what you were doing, you wouldn't be in this situation, right? It's no sign of weakness to admit you need help - it's a sign of maturity and commitment to improving yourself and your relationships.
This attitude towards counseling never ceases to amaze me. Really I think people are either deeply embarrassed to spill their secrets to a stranger, afraid of what they might discover/reveal about themselves, or for some reason deeply committed to their familiar misery. Astonishing.
To the OP - if you are not willing to do the work it takes to save your marriage, you will get no sympathy from me or very many other people.