Stop-Look-Listen are the three words you need to know. Slow your pasty ass down and try to figure out what's getting her off. Watch how she reacts, listen to her breathing, etc. If you have to, ask her. 'Does that feel good? Do you like that?' you can turn it into a game.
Also? None of this matters. Turns out you can't learn to be a good lover by reading about it; it's a practical skill, and those (as the name implies) take practice.
Aside: Am I the only one who thinks it's odd that there's almost no female input here?
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I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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