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The difference is in whether you're a "reader" or not. Learn to read women in terms of what they say, their body language, their general vibe. Be aware. Don't get overwhelmed by your own senses and desire. In a way, it's like serving and being served rather than just looking out for yourself and what you want.
Oh, and learn how to make use of your tongue and at least a couple of fingers simultaneously (stimultaneously?). If you can make their legs shake, then you know you're doing it right.
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Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing?
—Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön
Humankind cannot bear very much reality.
—From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot
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