So it's all about climbing the zigurat and pushing the envelope?
As a general rule, I have always found that as a guy, if I do stuff to get me off I can end up getting off today.
If I do stuff to get her off, I end up getting off today, tomorrow and the day after.
Key advice: leave her wanting another go. That you tried to please her is usually more important than whether you managed THIS TIME. If you have the will but not the technique, you are a better investment for her than if you have the technique but not the will.
"Want to but can't" > "can but doesn't want to"
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Overhead, the Albatross hangs motionless upon the air,
And deep beneath the rolling waves,
In labyrinths of Coral Caves,
The Echo of a distant time
Comes willowing across the sand;
And everthing is Green and Submarine
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