Wow, a question that you could basically pour Tilted Sexuality into without any spillover.
I'm not a girl but word on the street places respect and good communication skills high on the wish list and more important than having a purple-headed warrior the size of a baguette and abs like Christian Bale. If you're referring to physical acts like being able to tie their clit in a knot through awesome cunnilingus or how you don't try to shove your thumb in their ass on the second date... you'll have to be more specific. This question is so broad that makes the Grand Canyon look like the gap between Letterman's teeth.
Turns out the things that turn on women often turn on men... or humans in general. Being in tune to and providing for the specific desires of your partner is where you get the magic. Good lovers aren't just men or women, they're people that know how to please other people. It's more than just physical traits; plenty of "hot" people suck in bed.
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RE: OP
Example: I had a partner that was very proper in public and expected to be treated as such. It was annoying at times. "You can't touch my tush outside the movie theater... people are watching." When we got home? Dirty girl deluxe. I had to get used to the on/off switch. So I catered to her bipolar sex drive. She was happy* with my efforts.
*As happy as a woman can be given her occupation, my occupation, and a combined sex drive that would make a porn star take a knee.
Last edited by Plan9; 07-16-2010 at 08:02 PM..
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