Manic_Skafe

Honestly, I'd probably do exactly as you are now. It couldn't be any more likely that all of this will blow up in your face but you seem to know what you're getting yourself into. I wish you luck and hope that it won't be too rough on you when it comes time to face the inevitable: she's not yours, you're a home wrecker and whether it leads to termination of employment, a slap on the wrist or nothing at all, you've probably sullied your reputation at work.

Good luck and cheers to not giving a fuck.

Also, while neither of us were married, I've been in a very similar situation before. She was dating an idiot (who also worked with us) and I couldn't have been any less happy with my partner. Things worked out well in the end and we were together for years.

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