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It's not that I feel anything to prove, I just hate awkward silences. I also find it's easier to get people to open up if you've got a broad range of questions that lead in to conversations.
4 hours of nothing? example, talking about like, what kind of couches we've owned, detailed, size, shape, depth, color, fabric, etc.. I was just like "wtf are we even talking about this for? cuz we can?" Yeah it wasn't 4 hours of that but you know, 20 minutes here and there of similar random tangental topic expansion just makes me put the phone back in my pocket and go "yeah, I still don't know anything about her, but fuuuck man, ask me about her couch"
dlish, at this point, they've both tried to initiate sex with me, I don't think thats my problem. I don't think I "have" a problem, moreso a desire to have a better menu of topics to discuss that isn't so secular and walled off from your "typical" person
also, not a friend of a friend, acquaintance of an acquaintance. Like I met this one girl at a party, I did a lot of party photography before I got in to the DJ'ing, she was very photogenic, She also was in to photography, casual hobby based conversation which simply led to a random facebook friendship 10 years later out of curiosity because I was going through my old pictures and was like "hrm, wonder if she'd want these pictures of herself"
anyways, 6 months later one of her fb buddies and I are commenting on a post and she just winds up adding me apparently cuz she liked my opinion, or maybe I'm just a hot piece of man meat, it's anybody's guess.
just a chain of events, all of it.
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