OP here.
He wanted me to move to this complex, in fact, wanted me to move in with him (and has made the offer several times since)
problem is, He's dominant with furniture and such, while I'm even moreso. Together that would basically mean disowning my stuff or putting it in storage. Personally, I feel quite "at home" with my set up the way it is.
I still haven't resolved this or even mentioned it to him, but it didn't seem like an intentional slight. I just finally put my foot down on going over to his place and told him if he wants to do something, he knows where I'll be. He came over when we agreed to head out to pick up food but he wouldn't even sit down, he just acted antsy and nervous the entire time.
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