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Originally Posted by jaymoney
yo face the facts clearly you not part of the inner circle. You just somebody he knows and he clearly doesn't consider you as one of his boys. so stop bitching about it like you in love with this dude
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Hey Jay, I just wanted to thank you for a response that sounded like a male cliche reading it from a male cliche book.
Here's the answer. There isn't a solution if you feel solution means success. Either way you lose. You've been handed your fate - voluntold, if you will. I'll say it's probably over as far as any genuine relationship would go, but that wasn't the question.
I'm sure it's hard to admit it for some guys, but I don't care - a friendship between straight men can be intensely emotional. Anyone who believes otherwise is ignorant or a robot version of themselves, completely unaware that you are not the original but actually a robot [I'm looking at you Willravel]. Not unlike a brother. It's like being betrayed by a brother.
Now stop acting like a bunch of fucking losers and be honest. He has a right to be pissed. His good friend of 10 years has been dicking him around for a couple of months with no explanation. Are we really so ridiculous that we can blame this guy for not instantly abandoning a relationship he's been working on for a decade. Ten years is a LONG time.
Anybody that I've known for ten years as a friend is family to me. I know all their full names [that I can think of] and their birthdays. 9 out of 13 are in my 'favorite' section on my cell contact list.
The thing is Anonymous, the reason you feel upset but think it's illogical is simple. It's not about the film, but that's the obvious part. If that were the case this would be stupid. But the fact is, what? He's stopped being family - I bet that's closer to what the problem is.
Sorry this is happening dude. The best thing you can do is immerse yourself elsewhere.