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I can only give a girl's perspective but even so...
I don't know how it is between guys. But between people....
Ok even if you are acting a bit needy or he just doesn't enjoy your company anymore...that was a shitty situation to walk in on.
If he is just careless and actually didn't remember to invite you (you're 15 seconds away) when someone showed up with the movie...it's still not nice of him and I would think twice about letting someone that thoughtless be a close friend of mine. I'd possibly find a time to talk to them about it and clear the air, and if it was apparent to me that he really didn't care anyway, then I'd stop being available to that friend myself.
If he knew full well that he was deliberately excluding you...then I'd just move on. Not only is this thoughtless it's also pretty cruel if you were friends for over 10 years before it stopped working. Who wants a friend like that?
Either way, it was a nasty thing to do to you and I don't think you're wrong to feel hurt or cast aside.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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