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Originally Posted by ratbastid
Don't ever promise not to get mad and then get mad. Just don't ever do that.
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I kind of agree with that. I mean, its good that I think you get that the issue here is with you - but when someone goes out on a limb to say something and get a bad reaction they wont likely do so again.
For me, I guess I have the usual sexist male attitude (two girls & one guy (ie me) = awesome,two guys one girl=revolting and abominable.
But Im quite a square, I know that.
I dont think it is a big problem to have different or even conflicting fantasies at all. What becomes a problem is different expectations.
If my girfriend said she fantasized about being in a threesome with Johnny Depp and Matt Damon or whoever are considered handsome men I wouldnt exactly be delighted, but a fantasy is a fantasy. As long as she could re-assure me that if me and either of those male actors drank 10 pints of Stella and got into a fight in the car park of the pub I would win, I'd be happy with that.
I guess what I am trying to say is just its best to be content that she IS with you and she is for a reason. We probably all have fantasies that are a bit taboo, and for the most part fantasies are all they are. Freaking out about it might be just an emotional response, but its one Id try to avoid the next time she opens up to you about something she probably feels is a bit of a "guilty" thing to think about.