I'm certain that anyone put in that position would feel exactly as hurt and betrayed as you do. And while it may just be you, I'm less convinced that any of this says more about you as an individual than it does about the role that you play in this particular social circle. It's hurtful and it sucks but it's really not worth the analysis when there are so many other people on this planet.
You're in the minority as you appear to be a thoughtful and caring person, invest your time in people that can appreciate that rather than friendships that are more like pulling teeth than true camaraderie.
Edit: And if you find this friendship worthy of pursuing then Mr. Friendly offers excellent advice.
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