I think its more complicated than saying someone who cheats is alwas wrong... every relationship breaks down for different reasons and rarely is either party blameless.
I have never cheated on someone, but I have been the person that someone has cheated with three times in my life. Is it perfect - no... but I dont feel guilty either. If their relationships were right then those people wouldnt be looking elsewhere. I know some males that simply cheat for the sake of it - just becase they seem to be addicted to trying to screw different women - to some degree that is inexcusable, but most women dont cheat unless their current partner isnt treating them well. Maybe its a generalisation - but its how my experience of the world has been.
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