Like you, MrFriendly, I would prefer to take it as it comes. I think it is grossly unfair to equivocate a person to their genitalia. Yes, I am in a heterosexual relationship at the moment, and I plan on spending the rest of my life with this man, but before he came along I could have cared less if the person I was interested in had a penis or a vagina. He just happens to have a penis and a personality that fits my own in a way I'd never experienced before.
I hesitate to identify as bisexual; that in and of itself seems limiting, but I often do so for the ease of others.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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