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Originally Posted by ametc
Why I want to leave him:
~ he's emotionally abusive
~ he's cold and distant
~ he always tells me "bros before hos" when we're spending quality time with eachother and his friends want to hang out instead
~ he insults me
~ he doesn't acknowledge anything good about me or even my efforts to help him out
~ he expects me to be his sugar momma.. somehow (when I have no job)
~ he flirts with other women
Why I want to stay:
~ he says he loves me
~ he wants to grow old with me he says
~ he knows what I want in sex and gives it
~ he gives me somebody so I'm not lonely
~ he's funny
~ I'm used to him
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Notice how all the reasons why you want to leave are specifically about him, and 5 of 6 reasons to stay are really not about him at all, but about just being in a relationship? Other than him being funny, all other points are simply about how you like being in a stable monogamous relationship. When you can't think of any reasons to be with a specific person, it is time to leave.