When you can't find a reason to stay other than "I love him/he loves me" and "I'm content and don't want to be alone", it's time to suck it up and cut your losses. It sounds to me like like him telling you he loves you and wants to grow old with you is just an extension of the emotional abuse anyway...
Move on. There's better out there.
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