I didn't ever really feel the tug to have kids until I was married and I felt "settled" in my life. Now I realize how hard it is to have a child and care for them the older you get. I wish I would have started younger!!
I would tell you that you can do both things, you education and have a child. But the fact of the matter is, sometimes that is just not possible. Children take up SO MUCH time, energy and focus that you may not have anything left for yourself. Everyone is different though, I just know once I had a child, my world changed 100%.
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