My opinion is that if you are thinking this calculated about children, you probably won't ever have any.
There is never a 'right' time. You will never be prepared. You just have to do it, if it is something that you really want.
Biologically, we are wired to reproduce. Logically, it seems crazy to bring a person into the world with the economy being in the shitter. Choose your choice and go with it. You have to make sacrifices on either choice. The main question is which sacrifices are you willing to live with?
I don't feel grief or guilt over not having a child. I don't want the responsibility. I don't see the point of bringing someone into the world and devoting so much time, energy, and money to him/her without any guarantee of a positive outcome.
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