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Anonymous Member · 06-17-2009, 11:05 AM

Hey guys (predominantly) and girls,
I know there's stuff about this already but I've never seen much description or detail.

Little bit of back story: After the ex-girlfriend "fiasco"

you may remember from this detail who I am, I have now managed to find the girl of my dreams, who cares about me and loves me as much as I do her. So I'm very happy.

Now, she started the pill a while ago and we now don't use condoms, which we both love, despite the mess (not very well publicised, it must be said - I never realised 'love juice' just flowed back out pretty quickly.. not sure where I thought it would go though, when I think back, I guess I didn't really consider it).

Now, when we used condoms I struggled to start with (new at it, I'm at the end of my teenage years so can still claim the mental hormones running rampage through my body defence) with stamina, not badly, but say 1-2 mins (2mins was my nickname for a little while

) Then I began to get into the swing of things and could last for say 10mins. Which I liked. This was fine for both of us.

However, without the condom being a massively thick non-feeling-conductive glove stopping all sensations to my penis, I am now back to say 1min before going down on her, and then going back and finishing a minute later.

I've become quite good at going down on her as I've got to know what works and what doesn't

and I think this is my saving grace. Now when she says she really enjoys our sex, I believe her. However, while I love it too, because it feels REALLY REALLY REALLY good so I would quite like it to feel REALLY REALLY REALLY good for longer so we can try different positions etc (doggy is a no go as that feels INSANELY REALLY REALLY REALLY good). I mean, whoever the fuck said that condoms feel the same as no condoms was so far wide of the mark, the couldn't see it and just decided another mark was the mark. I don't know if she has some super special vagina, but I can't believe how amazing the sensations are, and never knew I could feel so many of the inner contours and textures inside her, and that it would feel so good.

So, while I want to last longer for her, as I'm sure it wouldn't hurt, it's also for me.

The other thing is that she gets sore if I last say 15-20mins, so round two is a no-go, since I take much longer than that usually, so have to stop.

Now I've heard about kegels, and was wondering if someone in the know could elaborate. I tried something when jacking off which I believe was it, and it had all of the build-up of an orgasm so I kinda clenched what I thought was that muscle, then the start of the orgasm feeling but not as prolonged, no cum, and then the kind of "bleh" feeling once you're done, and a kind of sense of ruining an orgasm. Not really what I wanted.

So, after all of this, is a proper kegel thingy a sort of "reset" button for an orgasm build up, which just sets you back to the beginning, or is it as I described; an orgasm with no cum? Thanks

If the former, when do you do it, and do you ahve to stop to do it?

Cheers, and any extra info is useful. All I could find on the net was how to do the exercises.

06-17-2009, 11:05 AM	#1 (permalink)
Anonymous Member Addict	more detailed stamina info required please :) Hey guys (predominantly) and girls, I know there's stuff about this already but I've never seen much description or detail. Little bit of back story: After the ex-girlfriend "fiasco" you may remember from this detail who I am, I have now managed to find the girl of my dreams, who cares about me and loves me as much as I do her. So I'm very happy. Now, she started the pill a while ago and we now don't use condoms, which we both love, despite the mess (not very well publicised, it must be said - I never realised 'love juice' just flowed back out pretty quickly.. not sure where I thought it would go though, when I think back, I guess I didn't really consider it). Now, when we used condoms I struggled to start with (new at it, I'm at the end of my teenage years so can still claim the mental hormones running rampage through my body defence) with stamina, not badly, but say 1-2 mins (2mins was my nickname for a little while ) Then I began to get into the swing of things and could last for say 10mins. Which I liked. This was fine for both of us. However, without the condom being a massively thick non-feeling-conductive glove stopping all sensations to my penis, I am now back to say 1min before going down on her, and then going back and finishing a minute later. I've become quite good at going down on her as I've got to know what works and what doesn't and I think this is my saving grace. Now when she says she really enjoys our sex, I believe her. However, while I love it too, because it feels REALLY REALLY REALLY good so I would quite like it to feel REALLY REALLY REALLY good for longer so we can try different positions etc (doggy is a no go as that feels INSANELY REALLY REALLY REALLY good). I mean, whoever the fuck said that condoms feel the same as no condoms was so far wide of the mark, the couldn't see it and just decided another mark was the mark. I don't know if she has some super special vagina, but I can't believe how amazing the sensations are, and never knew I could feel so many of the inner contours and textures inside her, and that it would feel so good. So, while I want to last longer for her, as I'm sure it wouldn't hurt, it's also for me. The other thing is that she gets sore if I last say 15-20mins, so round two is a no-go, since I take much longer than that usually, so have to stop. Now I've heard about kegels, and was wondering if someone in the know could elaborate. I tried something when jacking off which I believe was it, and it had all of the build-up of an orgasm so I kinda clenched what I thought was that muscle, then the start of the orgasm feeling but not as prolonged, no cum, and then the kind of "bleh" feeling once you're done, and a kind of sense of ruining an orgasm. Not really what I wanted. So, after all of this, is a proper kegel thingy a sort of "reset" button for an orgasm build up, which just sets you back to the beginning, or is it as I described; an orgasm with no cum? Thanks If the former, when do you do it, and do you ahve to stop to do it? Cheers, and any extra info is useful. All I could find on the net was how to do the exercises.