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The stupidest idea (relationships)
Fact - there's this girl who I like. Ive known her for a little while but lately situation has made us in much closer contact. She's funny, bright, positive, caring, doesnt take things too seriously... pretty (actually very much so), fun, likeable, tolerant, level headed.
Fact - Even with my moody nature and volatile swings in self esteem, I can tell she likes me as a person, and there is a little spark there... I am not tryin to come over as arrogant but you can tell when you make a connection with someone that is mutual.
Fact - we work at the same place. She doesnt work for me, but she is front line in the same area of the company I am a manager in. We work in the same part of the building. Her boss and I have the same boss.
So... a relationship would be a stupid idea, an impossible idea, a tihng bound to end in disaster, mess, complications - one of us having to leave her jobs. And btw, her relationship status is, broadly, "complicated" - she isnt in my view taken, she isnt precisely single.
I seek confirmation that definitely I need to just chill, keep my feelings in check and wait for them to pass. Thats the right thing to do, right?
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"Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate,
for all things are plain in the sight of Heaven. For nothing
hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain
without being uncovered."
The Gospel of Thomas
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