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Originally Posted by Iliftrocks
By the way, after you finally get over your first, then try thinking about how you say things to the new prospective women in your life. You can always say that you prefer a particular type of activity or interaction, without ever having to give the context of a previous relationship. You would say I'd like for a partner to do such and such, without ever having to say that "Sarah used to do this thing with her tongue..." No names, and try not to mention past relationships with anger, either.
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I've violated this (anger) and had partners violate this (name thing)... what seems like all the friggin' time.
*waits for WillRavel to toss up Universal Life Excuse #1*
I'm mildly bitter about my failed marriage. The partner-using-ex's-name thing really pisses me off.
The fact that it happens right when the relationship stalls out and starts the downward spiral...
Total warning sign? I think so. Wow, internal newsflash.
Hmm.
Thanks,
ILiftRocks. You leave me with things to consider.