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If you really want to date this girl, ask her out. It's up to her to decide if being with you is worth essentially breaking her friendship with your ex. If she chooses your ex instead of you, after the way your ex treats you and this girl, well ... then you deserve someone better. Because if this girl chooses your ex, she might be more like your ex than you realize.
Either way, sever contact with your ex. Some girls will hit up ex-boyfriends for favors until he finally says no. When I started dating a guy 20 some years ago, his ex-girlfriend always seemed to find out when we had plans to go somewhere. She liked to screw up our dates by calling him, begging for a ride. Out of gas, locked keys in car, car not starting, late for appointment somewhere. You name it. Finally I bought him a window clingie that read "Ex-Girlfriend In Trunk." I told him from now on, only one of us gets rides from him. If it was her, I was moving on.
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